Joining Greek life was survival by familiarity, even if I knew I was isolated. With all this in mind, I agreed to loan out my baby-blue embroidered tie. A Semi nal night with some semi-good friends. All that changed once his frat brothers got wind of his concerns. Thanks in part to Queer Eye , gay cis men — and really only gay cis men — are finding a more public-facing role in frat culture. Date events and formals are the high-stakes collegiate versions of homecoming, prom and any social event in which a guy asks a girl to board a bus and get blackout drunk.
Luz. Age: 27.
He's still trying to understand what it means to be a Gemini Rising.
Leyla. Age: 23.
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But I felt guilty for assimilating so easily. We were acutely aware that our first impression would set the course of our next four years. For others whose queerness is easily detectable — be that intentional or not — Greek life can be much worse. Were my fashion opinions contributing to a culture that already isolated me? It took me four years to unpack why I willingly entered Greek life during my freshman year.